tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post5529946228012729647..comments2024-01-09T09:21:14.168+00:00Comments on Bella Naija: BN HOT TOPIC - WHY DO WOMEN HATE ON WOMENUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger47125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-16084988749855896592008-10-23T22:35:00.000+01:002008-10-23T22:35:00.000+01:00This topic is interesting.it is so simple, they wa...This topic is interesting.<BR/>it is so simple, they want to be like you, have what you have but can't have it because they don't have good attitude to make it perfect.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-56993878140900383952008-08-11T13:09:00.000+01:002008-08-11T13:09:00.000+01:00@the house of style, well said... keep doing your...@the house of style, well said... keep doing your thing, girl. BE UNSTOPPABLE.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-55559679797664535232008-08-10T10:49:00.000+01:002008-08-10T10:49:00.000+01:00Culture,socialization and up bringing sometimes le...Culture,socialization and up bringing sometimes let us down as women. Thus.. more and more girls grow into womanhood with a lack of a strong self,identity and self esteem. If a woman thinks shes all that and a bag of chips why would she hate on her sister/friend? Hating stems from a sheer lack of self confidence.<BR/>I am a personl & fashion stylist with what some might consider a loud sense Marianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11039929946026207864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-35489900849448476802008-08-08T14:06:00.000+01:002008-08-08T14:06:00.000+01:00Every one has gone on,on how we are our own worst ...Every one has gone on,on how we are our own worst enemies..'i dont have female friends,'it stems from low esteem and inferiority complex..yada,yada,yada..... If we are all complaining that we chicks are mean to each other, that means that we are all guilty....cos no one has said that it is not true...<BR/>so we shld step back and take a good look....<BR/>before u insult someone for looking good longsuffererhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06066599734987530443noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-64919297272487091872008-08-08T13:36:00.000+01:002008-08-08T13:36:00.000+01:00I think its insecurity because when a lady meets a...I think its insecurity because when a lady meets another that is geeky and not as cute as she is, she is nice to her and likes her till she becomes threatened by her.Naija Sutrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09026857990732271006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-9410336310433974512008-08-08T11:45:00.000+01:002008-08-08T11:45:00.000+01:00Where is Bella that started this hot and interesti...Where is Bella that started this hot and interesting piece? I am yet to read a comment from herThe Activisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10208721217617791119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-74718325217811088412008-08-08T11:40:00.000+01:002008-08-08T11:40:00.000+01:00@Hunter girl: by referring to "men and society". w...@Hunter girl: by referring to "men and society". we coudl try and look at this holistically. A lot of people had mentioned "insecurity, low-self esteem" etc. How do people get into the stage of lacking those qaulities? It's ones socialization, ones upbringing and all. Women have being discriminated against in the past that inferiority that set in affects their relagtioship with other women.<BR/><The Activisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10208721217617791119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-35535019204763320702008-08-08T01:18:00.000+01:002008-08-08T01:18:00.000+01:00hmmmm....sorry to butt in but i kinda disagree wit...hmmmm....sorry to butt in but i kinda disagree with the comments that 'men and society' are to blame for women's bitching. WE need to take responsibility of our actions......for example, a friend of mine who works in the bank recently tried to get some leave due to some maternity issues. Her female boss exacts words 'Oh please, are u the first one to get pregnant.....dont be lazy'. <BR/>Please Hunter girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00451948831359973348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-78328197862892334942008-08-07T15:46:00.000+01:002008-08-07T15:46:00.000+01:00infact this is the story of my life it is as if i ...infact this is the story of my life it is as if i always put people on the edge i dont get .At every point in time one chick or the other is beefing me big time , poor innocent me .<BR/><BR/>Currently in the office some babe is seriously player hating as in she thinks we are in some sort of competition, okay i know i am finer than her younger than her and senoir to her in the office stakes but misspumpinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06691219730339501935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-42770970352008516152008-08-07T10:38:00.000+01:002008-08-07T10:38:00.000+01:00Well, i'll just say like poles repels and unlike p...Well, i'll just say like poles repels and unlike poles attract.<BR/>Though this theory sometimes doesn't count for men but it does.<BR/><BR/>There are solutions for it but there is nothing we can do about it either.<BR/>Every woman wants to be the best you know.<BR/>Even the successful ones are still hating on themselves.<BR/><BR/>Noami Campbell hates on Tyra Banks<BR/>Rihanna hates on beyonce<BRAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-64492464358383444942008-08-07T08:44:00.000+01:002008-08-07T08:44:00.000+01:00we are always in competition, which is nt necessar...we are always in competition, which is nt necessary,if she carries a miu miu bag, then i must buy the gucci. if she's got mba from LBS then mine must be from harvard. its all so senseless.<BR/>we are always watching out for the other girl's flaws WHY! its crazydowntheaislehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07674683072595909008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-72746088677066473842008-08-07T05:59:00.000+01:002008-08-07T05:59:00.000+01:00I think it's funny that most women say "that's why...I think it's funny that most women say "that's why i don't have female friends." That's so old and untrue. We all have female friends. Besides, does <I>not</I> having a female friend solve anything? We should learn to embrace one another and help each other grow. Personally, I think women don't communicate enough. Yes, we can chat on the phone for hours, but it's mostly gossip. I think once we Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-24190435451098640782008-08-07T05:57:00.000+01:002008-08-07T05:57:00.000+01:00This comment has been removed by the author.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17972959014585763983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-22700043327646763552008-08-07T05:27:00.000+01:002008-08-07T05:27:00.000+01:00sugabelly and the anonymous 3:45pm & 2:18 shoo...sugabelly and the anonymous 3:45pm & 2:18 shook me hand!!!well said!!!it is SAD we allow society to put us in a box and tell us women hate each other..women do this to each other!!Puhleeeze...enough of that!!!any evil person who wants to hate on anybody will hate on them irrespective of the gender..pls watch those reality shows and see how men and women gossip and hate alike!!!!MEN HATE!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-66262896375505420152008-08-07T05:17:00.000+01:002008-08-07T05:17:00.000+01:00everyone hates on everyone...so its not woman hati...everyone hates on everyone...so its not woman hating on woman world..men hate on men..women hate on women...men hate on women and vice versa...but pple are used to thinking women spit out venom all d time so the say oh women hate on women!!!everyone hates on everyone o ..when guys hate on guys its called keeping it real abi!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-73834660468192883032008-08-07T05:14:00.000+01:002008-08-07T05:14:00.000+01:00i also agree with you sugabelly. well saidi also agree with you sugabelly. well saidAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-22257277811562349102008-08-07T01:38:00.000+01:002008-08-07T01:38:00.000+01:00Women hate on other women because men constantly p...Women hate on other women because men constantly pitch us against each other. I don't know if it's done consciously or unconsciously but men all over the world constantly elevate one woman and belittle another, and I guess this has led to bitterness among women fighting to be the treasured one rather than the vilified. <BR/><BR/>It really is very sad, but the day women begin to think Sugabellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17943638849867603413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-82371869512286090602008-08-06T21:46:00.000+01:002008-08-06T21:46:00.000+01:00my 2 cents...as for mothers in law..my mum doesnt ...my 2 cents...<BR/><BR/>as for mothers in law..my mum doesnt help matters as well and im a girl. I also go thru this wif my partners(not engaged yet) mum even when i try.<BR/><BR/>I honestly dont know why women hate on each other. I dont think most women r being honeest wif themselves. I am soo against having loads of female friends as i dont like them being all about my business as guys dont do Godisalivehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11801140373219738839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-39797697236915718692008-08-06T18:30:00.000+01:002008-08-06T18:30:00.000+01:00I must admit I do have a tendency to "hate" on lad...I must admit I do have a tendency to "hate" on ladies, but only a certain type- the sneaky social climbers that pretend to be innocent and cute. I really can't stand them. I do have some of them as friends and because they bring out the "hater" in me, I try to distance myself from them to prevent me from hating.<BR/><BR/>But other than that I celebrate women, friends and aquaintances that are Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-37951556760979701592008-08-06T18:25:00.000+01:002008-08-06T18:25:00.000+01:00Women should learn to appreciate themselves, their...Women should learn to appreciate themselves, their differences amongst other women first,without this love,there will be room for insecurity, inferiority and lots of palava.<BR/><BR/>Funny enough, have you noticed, women can sit down for hours, talk about bfriends lovers, and fashion but everything else you hear / see jealousy rear its ugly head.<BR/><BR/>Women guarding their territory, very Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-30961274169177828672008-08-06T18:05:00.000+01:002008-08-06T18:05:00.000+01:00I know....its soooo bad!!!I was watching an episod...I know....its soooo bad!!!<BR/>I was watching an episode of Afircan Apprentice a while back (the one where the male and female groups had to make a pitch to an oil company).I couldnt help but notice the daggers the ladies from the board of directors at the oil company kept giving to the all female group! It was so blatant. At first i thought it was just me being my usual critical self untill my Hunter girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00451948831359973348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-29930137967182943352008-08-06T17:43:00.000+01:002008-08-06T17:43:00.000+01:00hmm.. if i had a dollar for every time i have been...hmm.. if i had a dollar for every time i have been involved in this same topic of discussion...<BR/><BR/>Its sooo many reasons... coming from Envy & Low Self Esteem, whether pple r in denial or not....<BR/><BR/>I believe that if anyone can love himself enough... he or she will fully love others.<BR/><BR/>I guess I'm talking more solution here rather reason.. the Bible does say the heart dScR?Behttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10500270327493152042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-15187452002434421042008-08-06T17:40:00.000+01:002008-08-06T17:40:00.000+01:00Prior to three years ago, I would be on the other ...Prior to three years ago, I would be on the other side of this argument saying "oh no, women love each other and a woman is the best supporter of her womenfolk". But experience has taught me otherwise. Some women, when put in the position of power, to guard their turf, they flex their muscles and the victim is usually another woman because men are less likely to play good victims compared to Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-82046577145619183492008-08-06T17:33:00.000+01:002008-08-06T17:33:00.000+01:00ummm...God bless COCO! Most other "women" on here ...ummm...God bless COCO! <BR/>Most other "women" on here i've notice are busy doing the same thing "we" are being accused of...hating, criticizing..etc...all while excluding themselves in the process.<BR/><BR/>Please lets be real to ourselves...WE have all harbored some sought of bitterness/jealousy/reproach towards another female whether consciously or subconciously....whether long term or short Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-38983783899469581202008-08-06T16:33:00.000+01:002008-08-06T16:33:00.000+01:00Just reminds me of when I first met my husband's f...Just reminds me of when I first met my husband's family. All my brothers in law were so nice and full of compliments of the new iyawo.<BR/><BR/>But you know now, my sister in-law immediately hated on me for no reason eventually she influenced her other sister to also hate up on me and then they both got their mum (my mother in law) in their camp. I felt like I was being ganged up on by the womenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com