tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post1334495669359445946..comments2024-01-09T09:21:14.168+00:00Comments on Bella Naija: BN PROSEUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger65125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-31929441842621065912008-03-07T15:53:00.000+00:002008-03-07T15:53:00.000+00:00WOW!!!!WOW!!!!!!Estella!!https://www.blogger.com/profile/16828471696016750016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-24992446212759880442008-03-02T15:31:00.000+00:002008-03-02T15:31:00.000+00:00nice work, i loved the easy flow of conversation b...nice work, <BR/>i loved the easy flow of conversation between the guys, it was so real, so naija, so Lagos big boy type over cold beers on a friday night dissing women.<BR/>Thats all it is really, double standards in this world, just like Lil Kim rapped in Christina Aguileras song..<BR/>if a man sleeps around he is praised but if a babe does the same, then she's a whore.<BR/>its just what the Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-90766097670287811482008-02-29T16:15:00.000+00:002008-02-29T16:15:00.000+00:00abeg i say he leaves her slutty ass. cant women dr...abeg i say he leaves her slutty ass.<BR/> cant women draw a line on who 2 sleep with. how can u sleep with a man and all his friends. u no shame.<BR/> i am not being sexist. if a woman realises her man has been with all her friends then she has a right 2 b pissed as well.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-24184765403801141532008-02-27T23:54:00.000+00:002008-02-27T23:54:00.000+00:00Every girl who ever dated sm one other than her hu...Every girl who ever dated sm one other than her husband is guilty as far as busy bodies are concerned.<BR/>I know a guy from Jos who married his blood brothers' ex. At first every one talked its been almost ten years now and they are still together and no longer the center of attention.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-40521376684340571362008-02-27T23:50:00.000+00:002008-02-27T23:50:00.000+00:00I don't get it the moralof the story isI don't get it the moralof the story isAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-34143979043760814882008-02-25T15:39:00.000+00:002008-02-25T15:39:00.000+00:00What does one do after this? Where do u go from h...What does one do after this? <BR/><BR/>Where do u go from here?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-43742362685279484842008-02-25T14:23:00.000+00:002008-02-25T14:23:00.000+00:00This is the kind of situation no one prays to find...This is the kind of situation no one prays to find themselves in. How do u move on after this...do u leave the woman you love or profess to love or do you try and work it out hoping she has truly changed. <BR/><BR/>Difficult choices.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-51407656303123260212008-02-23T13:48:00.000+00:002008-02-23T13:48:00.000+00:00it is all so messed up as in really messed up!! it...it is all so messed up as in really messed up!! it's a pity sha, i guess 'slepping dogs' dont really lie... at least not 4 long!!chichihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13024391732622304013noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-18871454267957180522008-02-23T02:49:00.000+00:002008-02-23T02:49:00.000+00:00your past does not determine your future, thats tr...your past does not determine your future, thats true. If you consider your past to be just youthful lusts, by all means, please tell your husband that you did this and that and if he marries you after that .... shikena.<BR/>But pls don't hide it and expect him to be cool with him. I as a woman would be absolutely devastated if my guy had slept with all my female friends, even moved in with one Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-24079223830521311752008-02-22T13:52:00.000+00:002008-02-22T13:52:00.000+00:00If this is a real story…it is very sad. This isn’t...If this is a real story…it is very sad. <BR/><BR/>This isn’t about it’s a man’s world or double standard…we are talking friends! All his close mates!!!!<BR/><BR/>Heck, If I met up with my old firends and they were talking about some guy anyhow and taking the p*ss out of him’ then I find out it is my husband I cannot honestly say that I would be happy. Plus if my new husband had slept with all my Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-3659012396476041642008-02-22T00:40:00.000+00:002008-02-22T00:40:00.000+00:00It is kinda simple. Sleep with friends, tell the f...It is kinda simple. Sleep with friends, tell the friends and keep it open. Have threesome with the friends too sef. <BR/><BR/>But don't you ever marry one of them. Don't ever. It will never work. Some things are left out of marriage.Mineexclusivelyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17310665766303594898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-71018033300381382802008-02-21T23:46:00.000+00:002008-02-21T23:46:00.000+00:00http://testimonialjourney.blogspot.com/http://testimonialjourney.blogspot.com/Godisalivehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11801140373219738839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-46757939955369420692008-02-21T22:43:00.000+00:002008-02-21T22:43:00.000+00:00I like this story. Maybe I need to watch more Noll...I like this story. Maybe I need to watch more Nollywood or something, this one that everyone was saying predictable, predictable; it wasn't that predictable to meA to Zhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14663015371407197312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-18685983667250168942008-02-21T21:22:00.000+00:002008-02-21T21:22:00.000+00:00lollllllllllll but they gave us hints in teh story...lollllllllllll but they gave us hints in teh story now...they did a quiet wedding, so even her parents knew! haha they didnt want all the men on the grooms train to stand up during the wedding ceremondy and say 'i fucked her too'. life is a bitch men. kai<BR/><BR/>but they should have done background check, what kind of parents does chidi have sef that did not follow tradition abi the babe was Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-25277402118450240232008-02-21T21:18:00.000+00:002008-02-21T21:18:00.000+00:00actually now that i think about it. what a fool, w...actually now that i think about it. what a fool, why is he crying? maybe he has slept with all of her friends tooAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-12263287801146247832008-02-21T21:09:00.000+00:002008-02-21T21:09:00.000+00:00please...the guy didnt sleep with 3 of her friends...please...the guy didnt sleep with 3 of her friends!! haba! the way i see it..he could have stayed and let it haunt the marriage..or he could have left and let ehr find someone whose friends she hasnt slept with! life is a bitch..The writing was mad..the conversation and all!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-45501956767023411352008-02-21T20:15:00.000+00:002008-02-21T20:15:00.000+00:00Chidi has no one to blame but himself. If Chidi h...Chidi has no one to blame but himself. If Chidi had married in Naija fashion, his wife's past would have been revealed. For Igbo's they do background checks and this is the norm for most groups in Naija. Chidi's family and friends would have followed him to his wife's house to formally ask for her hand in marriage. They would have asked questions about her background and that of her family. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-4905021249464083062008-02-21T19:49:00.000+00:002008-02-21T19:49:00.000+00:00another BimByLad production - loved it.Sad but it'...another BimByLad production - loved it.<BR/><BR/>Sad but it's reality - it's a long road but peeps need to seriosuly start changing the way they think!Nwanyi Ochahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04713016939004979714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-19816285613248121212008-02-21T17:11:00.000+00:002008-02-21T17:11:00.000+00:00This just goes to show that life sucks (at times) ...This just goes to show that life sucks (at times) and everything done in the dark always comes to the light....next time before getting married they will remember to ask about each other's friends and past relationships....if she had asked these questions she would have realized she has slept with half of his friends....stupidity should not be classified as a mistake!!!Orekelewahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17973540358183158448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-13226205341401189212008-02-21T16:52:00.000+00:002008-02-21T16:52:00.000+00:00good job! this really teaches a serious life lesso...good job! this really teaches a serious life lesson.... wish i had seen this 5 years ago, but then again i would not have believed it. the most important thing though is for the girl to be truly repentant and forgive herself. we all make mistakes and it's like naija men would not give us a chance to make it right and enjoy the rest of our lives.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-3022020858426716172008-02-21T15:46:00.000+00:002008-02-21T15:46:00.000+00:00as they say in yoruba, ashewo to re ile oko, holid...as they say in yoruba, ashewo to re ile oko, holiday lo gba, i dont think the issue was her sleeping around? it was more sleeping with guys she knew were buddies and then not telling her husband about it before they got married. i know d true stroy and d husband di leave his wife afterwards but like someone said we dont live in an ideal world.36 INCHES OF BROWN LEGShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02201483964235747644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-21773091628073896272008-02-21T15:30:00.000+00:002008-02-21T15:30:00.000+00:00wow.. nice on.. chick should think about wriing no...wow.. nice on.. chick should think about wriing novels def had me holding my breathToni Paynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08141828472551973587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-92000065003146775852008-02-21T15:08:00.000+00:002008-02-21T15:08:00.000+00:00SHETTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT!!!!! T.O.J messed up! kai!an...SHETTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT!!!!! T.O.J messed up! kai!<BR/><BR/>and dis is bimby's work??? mehn... c talent!dScR?Behttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10500270327493152042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-40623941094181876832008-02-21T15:03:00.000+00:002008-02-21T15:03:00.000+00:00Really i dont think her active sexual life was the...Really i dont think her active sexual life was the issue.<BR/>Its the fact that she slept with all the guys knowing that they were all friends.<BR/>What dis means is that she doesnt have scruples. ala animashaun<BR/>Remember the Baba Iyabo tingyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30456646.post-19800752816737579672008-02-21T13:52:00.000+00:002008-02-21T13:52:00.000+00:00Great Job Bimby! Teaches us all a lesson. Keep up ...Great Job Bimby! Teaches us all a lesson. Keep up the good work.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com